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I have been in a similar situation myself, many years ago when I lived at home as a college student and was trying to gain, so I do understand your frustration. I agree that you need a place of your own to be able to do as you please and I hope you find a new job soon so that you can do this. Good luck!

When I married my wife, 34 years ago, she was about 320 lbs at 5 ' 6". She had always been fat since early childhood and although her weight has fluctuated over the years with several diets, she is now around 270 lbs and trying to lose weight for health reasons (which I am encouraging). She does not mind being fat apart from the health problem (she has bad arthritis and has very limited mobility). She is definitely not into this kink although I have never discussed it with her and I am sure she would not approve. My weight gains occasionally get comments such as "we must go on a diet" but I find ways to supplement my diet secretly.

Yeah, I can definitely feel you. My sister is the one who’s been piggybacking on me for my gain most of all. Tbh sometimes I like the teasing and name calling but other times it’s genuinely hurtful. Also, sorry to hear you lost your job. : (